My friend Amanda sent me this email last week:
Today....dropping C at school (ed. note- C is 2).....C stops at the 4 yr old room to see the toys. We see The Politician and he said "Hi Amanda...what's C doing?"
I said "He's looking at your room."
Then P said..."Well this is the 4 yr old room. He's not 4. See here it says right here on the door (comes to the hall and points above the door) '4'....well it says '2', but it really is the 4 yr old room."
Too cute.
Thursday, June 19, 2008
Wednesday, June 18, 2008
Fun! New Dowloads at Mom Agenda
Clemson Girl, this is totally up your alley.
I have the Mom Agenda Kitchen Folio in cherry (above) and I LOVE it. We keep it right by the phone and have all sorts of good info in there. And even though I am completely disorganized, I got my shit together one time and put everything anyone ever taking care of the kids would need. Even a medicine dosage chart (by weight!) for all the OTC meds I have for the kids. (email me if you'd like a copy)
But even cooler is that Mom Agenda just came out with some cool free downloads that can be printed out to put in the Kitchen Folio, or even in your own notebook. And they even come in cherry, ocean, and butter shades..... so cute! I just printed out the new ones and am going to pretend for a few days that I'm going to get around to using them. We all know I won't, but they sure look pretty sitting on the corner of my desk!
Meme from Clemson Girl and Hello Darling
You know, I did the 60 questions meme, but I am pretty boring today, but there is one thing I want the world to know (especially Ben and Jerry).
10. What is the best ice cream flavor? Ben and Jerry's Cool Britannia (not made anymore!).
Mr. Ben and Mr. Jerry, please please please bring it back! Vanilla ice cream with strawberries swirled in with little chocolate-covered shortbread pieces.... what's not to like? I think you were just before your time- it would be a hit in 2008!
Edited to add: Oh, and please bring back this one for Traci Anne!
The Full VerMonty - Maple ice cream with caramel swirl and pecans. A naked homage to our home state's Green Mountain bliss.
And holy cow, dear readers, if you love me but at all, you can vote here to resurrect Sasha's favorite flavor (Cool Britannia if you've got a short memory). I'd love you forever!
10. What is the best ice cream flavor? Ben and Jerry's Cool Britannia (not made anymore!).
Mr. Ben and Mr. Jerry, please please please bring it back! Vanilla ice cream with strawberries swirled in with little chocolate-covered shortbread pieces.... what's not to like? I think you were just before your time- it would be a hit in 2008!
Edited to add: Oh, and please bring back this one for Traci Anne!
The Full VerMonty - Maple ice cream with caramel swirl and pecans. A naked homage to our home state's Green Mountain bliss.
And holy cow, dear readers, if you love me but at all, you can vote here to resurrect Sasha's favorite flavor (Cool Britannia if you've got a short memory). I'd love you forever!
Hemangioma Surgery Scheduled
On Monday, WC had her pre-surgery appointment with her Pediatric Plastic Surgeon in Big City In A State Near Us and it went fabulous! He will be removing the remnants of her ulcerated hemangioma. They will be able to remove all of the hemangioma and all she will be left with is a pencil line-type scar across her arm, like the black line I have drawn on the picture above.
We were expecting that they would want to do the revision surgery in December or January, but they actually want to do her first surgery on August 7 and do the second and final surgery on December 4. We didn't know that it would take two surgeries to remove the remnants of the H, but figured that was a possibility.
The best part of all this is that it is outpatient, and they'll use internal dissolvable stitches and use dermabond on the top layer, so they said she could even get it wet the next day! We feel so good about this- so much better than we expected.
She was quite the ham at the appointment and was so friendly to the doctor. I think she will do great, although I may need a stiff drink to get me through it since I am a worry-wart. But I know she will be in great hands, so I think I can make it through. I am just glad to put this all behind us and stop getting the question "What happened to her arm? Was she burned?".
Tuesday, June 17, 2008
Sensory Sensivitity vs. Sensory Integration Disorder
The more research I do, I really think that WC has more of a "sensory sensitivity" than "sensory integration disorder". She just doesn't meet all the characteristics of SID. She meet some, but not all, and I think that's more of a sensory sensitivity. (Which explains A LOT about me- you know how I can't be hot or I freak out and can't breathe, and how I can't smell the same smell for very long or I feel sick and hot, and then I freak out, and then it's just a vicious cycle.....)
Anyway, last Thursday, our CDS called and me and said she wanted to refer us on to a Occupational Therapist to do an evaluation on WC. At first, I was worried that it was worse than we originally thought, but after reading more this weekend, I actually think it's better than we thought.
The CDS said that the OT will probably be able to tell us some specific things we can do at home to help WC, which sounds great to me.
So I called the recommended OT today and we talked a little about WC and I filled her in (what a story!). She felt like she can help us and we will probably get together next Wednesday.
I am just feeling so good about the steps we are taking!
Anyway, last Thursday, our CDS called and me and said she wanted to refer us on to a Occupational Therapist to do an evaluation on WC. At first, I was worried that it was worse than we originally thought, but after reading more this weekend, I actually think it's better than we thought.
The CDS said that the OT will probably be able to tell us some specific things we can do at home to help WC, which sounds great to me.
So I called the recommended OT today and we talked a little about WC and I filled her in (what a story!). She felt like she can help us and we will probably get together next Wednesday.
I am just feeling so good about the steps we are taking!
Friday, June 13, 2008
Today
At school today, WC was at the top of the slide. Her teacher looked away for just a second, looked back, and WC had her shorts down around her ankles.
She took off her wet diaper, flung it off the slide (and they said she's got a good arm- it went far!) pulled her shorts back up, and went down the slide.
Wow.
She took off her wet diaper, flung it off the slide (and they said she's got a good arm- it went far!) pulled her shorts back up, and went down the slide.
Wow.
Sasha's Favorite Books
Shannon asked for some book recommendations, so I created that handy little Amazon widget to the right.
If you haven't read Sophie Kinsella, drop what you are doing and get your hands on the Shopaholic series. Now, they do need to be read in order, so start at the top of the list. These books are an absolute riot- kind of like Bridget Jones, only funnier. And cooler. The Kinsella books without Shopaholic in the title are stand-alone books that are fab too.
At the very end of my list are two books by Pamela Des Barres- a groupie during the Zeppelin and Doors days. In our senior class newspaper, I listed her as my "Person Most Admired" and I think I scared the hell out of my parents. If you have any interest in the days of classic rock, give her first book a read- I guarantee you'll think she's a cool chick.
Happy reading!
If you haven't read Sophie Kinsella, drop what you are doing and get your hands on the Shopaholic series. Now, they do need to be read in order, so start at the top of the list. These books are an absolute riot- kind of like Bridget Jones, only funnier. And cooler. The Kinsella books without Shopaholic in the title are stand-alone books that are fab too.
At the very end of my list are two books by Pamela Des Barres- a groupie during the Zeppelin and Doors days. In our senior class newspaper, I listed her as my "Person Most Admired" and I think I scared the hell out of my parents. If you have any interest in the days of classic rock, give her first book a read- I guarantee you'll think she's a cool chick.
Happy reading!
Thursday, June 12, 2008
Hemangioma Treatment Question
Anonymous writes: hello! our little princess also has a 4cm hemangioma located at her left deltoid area.. i wonder if your child underwent any treatment and if YES, kindly enumerate them..so we could have a better option on which treatment modality we are to take after considering all option offered by her physician..hoping for your reply..
We actually didn't do any "treatment". Our local pediatrician told us to wait it out. Once we decided that probably wasn't the correct advice since she was in so much pain for over 2 months, I started doing extensive research on the Internet and found a pediatric plastic surgeon who specialized in vascular anomalies in a neighboring state a made an appointment. The quickest appointment they had was 3 weeks away.
Unbelievably, during that three week period we noticed that the ulceration was starting to heal and by the time we got to our appointment, part of the scab was even beginning to come off! He said that if he had seen us sooner there would have been things they could have done for the pain, but since it was starting to heal, we should be OK to wait it out. He did tell us to watch for another growth phase between 9-12 months and there was a chance it would ulcerate again.
Although it did appear to grow a little bit more from 9-12 months, it did not ulcerate again (praise God!) so the doctor said they didn't need to see us again until she was 2 1/2, at which time they would assess and schedule a scar revision surgery around age 3.
One important thing I should ask, Anonymous, is if your daughter's H is ulcerated. If not, most doctors do agree to leave the H alone if it is not in an area that affects breathing, vision, or eating. If the H leaves a cosmetic defect once it involutes, a revision surgery can be done around age 3 like my daughter will have.
Hope I answered some of your questions!
We actually didn't do any "treatment". Our local pediatrician told us to wait it out. Once we decided that probably wasn't the correct advice since she was in so much pain for over 2 months, I started doing extensive research on the Internet and found a pediatric plastic surgeon who specialized in vascular anomalies in a neighboring state a made an appointment. The quickest appointment they had was 3 weeks away.
Unbelievably, during that three week period we noticed that the ulceration was starting to heal and by the time we got to our appointment, part of the scab was even beginning to come off! He said that if he had seen us sooner there would have been things they could have done for the pain, but since it was starting to heal, we should be OK to wait it out. He did tell us to watch for another growth phase between 9-12 months and there was a chance it would ulcerate again.
Although it did appear to grow a little bit more from 9-12 months, it did not ulcerate again (praise God!) so the doctor said they didn't need to see us again until she was 2 1/2, at which time they would assess and schedule a scar revision surgery around age 3.
One important thing I should ask, Anonymous, is if your daughter's H is ulcerated. If not, most doctors do agree to leave the H alone if it is not in an area that affects breathing, vision, or eating. If the H leaves a cosmetic defect once it involutes, a revision surgery can be done around age 3 like my daughter will have.
Hope I answered some of your questions!
Wednesday, June 11, 2008
Ask the Product Junkie: Non-Feathering Lip Color
Blanda Amania writes: I'm loving and appreciating your makeup tips and product reviews. One thing I'm having a problem with being older, and sun OVERexposed, is dry skin around my lips, which encourages my lipstick to feather-- just hate it. Have you encountered this problem, and if so, what products/application techniques have you found to combat it? I kid you not. At 10am everyday I'm checking the reflection and cursing it all.
Thanks Blanda! Feathering lipcolor is the thorn in my side too- it's always been a problem for me as well. Now, I attribute mine to smoking back in HS and college, but I was also sun OVERexposed like you.
What I have found is that I just can't wear a typical lipstick. And lipliner is no help. I've tried it all- the "outliner" that is supposed to keep your lipstick from running (ha!) and of course colored liner to match your lipstick. I still get feathering.
It's pretty much got to be labeled as a long-wearing lipcolor, or it's got to be a stain.
So I stick with Revlon Colorstay Overtime Sheer Lipcolor in Sheer Pomegranate or I use a stain with a clear sparkly gloss over it- I like The Balm Stainiac in Beauty Queen with Bare Esentuals Buxom Lips in Dominique over it. I also have found that Revlon's ColorStay Mineral Lip Glaze in Overtime Wine doesn't run that bad... actually one of the first glosses that wears OK for me (but it is mysteriously missing from the Revlon site).
Other products I like: Revlon Colorstay Overtime Lipcolor (a bit darker than the sheer version), Too Faced Mood Swing (a color changing gloss that doesn't seem to run) and Avon's Pro-To-Go Lipstick (order from my friend Valeri!) in Cherry Glisten (a highly pigmented lipbalm that doesn't seem to run).
Anyway, I feel your pain! If your coloring is way different than mine, let me know what shades you are looking for and I'll see if I have any ideas!
Thanks Blanda! Feathering lipcolor is the thorn in my side too- it's always been a problem for me as well. Now, I attribute mine to smoking back in HS and college, but I was also sun OVERexposed like you.
What I have found is that I just can't wear a typical lipstick. And lipliner is no help. I've tried it all- the "outliner" that is supposed to keep your lipstick from running (ha!) and of course colored liner to match your lipstick. I still get feathering.
It's pretty much got to be labeled as a long-wearing lipcolor, or it's got to be a stain.
So I stick with Revlon Colorstay Overtime Sheer Lipcolor in Sheer Pomegranate or I use a stain with a clear sparkly gloss over it- I like The Balm Stainiac in Beauty Queen with Bare Esentuals Buxom Lips in Dominique over it. I also have found that Revlon's ColorStay Mineral Lip Glaze in Overtime Wine doesn't run that bad... actually one of the first glosses that wears OK for me (but it is mysteriously missing from the Revlon site).
Other products I like: Revlon Colorstay Overtime Lipcolor (a bit darker than the sheer version), Too Faced Mood Swing (a color changing gloss that doesn't seem to run) and Avon's Pro-To-Go Lipstick (order from my friend Valeri!) in Cherry Glisten (a highly pigmented lipbalm that doesn't seem to run).
Anyway, I feel your pain! If your coloring is way different than mine, let me know what shades you are looking for and I'll see if I have any ideas!
Tuesday, June 10, 2008
Meme
What was I doing 10 years ago? Working full time, going to grad school and drinking lots of beer (it was pre-kids and pre-marriage!)
6 Non-important things/habits/quirks:
1. I always have to have something on my feet. It can be flip flops or socks, but I simply can't be barefoot.
2. I drink 1 can of Coke every morning. Full sugar version.
3. I love classic rock and am pretty sure I was born 15 years too late. I am dying to meet Pamela Des Barres and have chatted with her numerous times in the late 90s.
4. I bite my nails, although I am always trying to quit. I go through cycles where I do a great job taking care of my nails and keep them painted, and then there are busy times like right now where I bite the dickens out of them because I don't have time to take care of them properly.
5. I am totally in the wrong career. I should not be an accountant, although I must say I am good at it. I should be in product development, marketing, or something with makeup!
6. I am a bargain shopper for househoold goods and food and even clothes, but I make up for that by being a Coach purse girl.
Five Foods I Enjoy:
1. Coconut shrimp, although I hate coconut and won't eat any other food with coconut in it. It gets in my teeth and I get all crazy about that.
2. Tiramisu, although I hate coffee.
3. Gummy candy- Sugar Plums, Peaches, Raspberries, Coke Bottles, Worms, Bears, etc.
4. Raspberry yogurt.
5. Chicken Burrito (no pico) at On The Border.
Things I Would Do If I Were a Billionaire:
1. Redecorate my current home- we've got all the room we need. I'd love a professional landscaper to come take care of my flower beds though. We are way lazy and they always look like crap.
2. Get the dent in my face from forceps when I was born repaired. I've tried fat transfer, but it only helped a little. I'd go see Dr. Rey! And get my cellulite taken care of while I was there.
3. Buy myself a few more hours a day so I could read all the books I'm dying to read. (A billionaire should be able to do that!)
4. Buy the house two doors down for my hairdresser to live in so she could blow dry my hair every morning.
5. Fully fund the music festival I helped found this year.
Five Places I Have Lived:
1. With the folks in 5 different places, including a mobile home and a log cabin on a farm
2. Sorority dorms
3. Rental house during the summer in college
4. Townhouse I purchased before I got married
5. House we bought after we got married
6 Non-important things/habits/quirks:
1. I always have to have something on my feet. It can be flip flops or socks, but I simply can't be barefoot.
2. I drink 1 can of Coke every morning. Full sugar version.
3. I love classic rock and am pretty sure I was born 15 years too late. I am dying to meet Pamela Des Barres and have chatted with her numerous times in the late 90s.
4. I bite my nails, although I am always trying to quit. I go through cycles where I do a great job taking care of my nails and keep them painted, and then there are busy times like right now where I bite the dickens out of them because I don't have time to take care of them properly.
5. I am totally in the wrong career. I should not be an accountant, although I must say I am good at it. I should be in product development, marketing, or something with makeup!
6. I am a bargain shopper for househoold goods and food and even clothes, but I make up for that by being a Coach purse girl.
Five Foods I Enjoy:
1. Coconut shrimp, although I hate coconut and won't eat any other food with coconut in it. It gets in my teeth and I get all crazy about that.
2. Tiramisu, although I hate coffee.
3. Gummy candy- Sugar Plums, Peaches, Raspberries, Coke Bottles, Worms, Bears, etc.
4. Raspberry yogurt.
5. Chicken Burrito (no pico) at On The Border.
Things I Would Do If I Were a Billionaire:
1. Redecorate my current home- we've got all the room we need. I'd love a professional landscaper to come take care of my flower beds though. We are way lazy and they always look like crap.
2. Get the dent in my face from forceps when I was born repaired. I've tried fat transfer, but it only helped a little. I'd go see Dr. Rey! And get my cellulite taken care of while I was there.
3. Buy myself a few more hours a day so I could read all the books I'm dying to read. (A billionaire should be able to do that!)
4. Buy the house two doors down for my hairdresser to live in so she could blow dry my hair every morning.
5. Fully fund the music festival I helped found this year.
Five Places I Have Lived:
1. With the folks in 5 different places, including a mobile home and a log cabin on a farm
2. Sorority dorms
3. Rental house during the summer in college
4. Townhouse I purchased before I got married
5. House we bought after we got married
Diagnosis
The result of the screening/questionnaire from last week is that The Wild Child has Sensory Integration Disorder. I feel better that we know what is causing her inappropriate behavior and now we can start working on how to handle it.
Basically, her sensory threshold is like a half-filled glass of water. If you try to put anything else (more sound etc) in the glass, she has trouble processing it. So when the teachers ask her to stop doing something (like taking off her shoes) and she doesn't respond, it is because she can't process their words since so much else is going on sensory-wise. Makes me feel better that she's not ignoring them like we thought. This problem is also causing her to act inappropriately when she is over-stimulated- that is when she bites, hits/swats, spits.
We are still having her hearing checked on the 27th just to rule out a hearing problem.
And the Child Development Specialist will be going to her school on the next week to observe WC in class, and then the CDS will go back twice in the next two weeks to visit with her teachers during nap time and get us all on the same page. Mr. Sasha and I will go back to see the CDS in three weeks to see how everything is going....
I feel better, mostly, but also hate that there is something "wrong"... But I am confident that we will figure it out!
Basically, her sensory threshold is like a half-filled glass of water. If you try to put anything else (more sound etc) in the glass, she has trouble processing it. So when the teachers ask her to stop doing something (like taking off her shoes) and she doesn't respond, it is because she can't process their words since so much else is going on sensory-wise. Makes me feel better that she's not ignoring them like we thought. This problem is also causing her to act inappropriately when she is over-stimulated- that is when she bites, hits/swats, spits.
We are still having her hearing checked on the 27th just to rule out a hearing problem.
And the Child Development Specialist will be going to her school on the next week to observe WC in class, and then the CDS will go back twice in the next two weeks to visit with her teachers during nap time and get us all on the same page. Mr. Sasha and I will go back to see the CDS in three weeks to see how everything is going....
I feel better, mostly, but also hate that there is something "wrong"... But I am confident that we will figure it out!
Monday, June 9, 2008
I Can Be Crafty!!!!
I bet you are wondering, what can be made with thin ribbon, pipe cleaners, and aquarium tubing?
Why, an Official Sasha Family Anti-Biting Bracelet. Proof positive that it is totally possible for me to be a little crafty when necessary.
When I told our Child Development Specialist last Tuesday that WC has been biting herself on the arm when she's frustrated, she told me to get some aquarium tubing and fashion a bracelet. Once she is wearing the bracelet, we are supposed to encourage her to bite the bracelet when she needs to chew on something- not skin!
I spent a few days trying to figure out in my head how to thread ribbon or elastic thru the tubing, when I had a Eureka Moment yesterday and thought of pipe cleaners. I wrapped the end of the ribbon around the end of the pipe cleaner and used that to thread it through. Genius, I tell you. (I do hate that it took me 4 days to figure it out, but hey, I'm an accountant, not an art major.)
Anyway, she wore it to school today and had a fab day, and evidently spent quite a bit of time chewing on the bracelet and not her friends.
We see the CDS again tomorrow and I am hoping to get our Discipline Plan down on paper. Wish us well!
Sunday, June 8, 2008
Friday, June 6, 2008
Damn Tornado Alley
So Mr. Sasha and I are in bed last night (get your mind out of the gutter!), enjoying the pilot episode of Swingtown, and as it often happens this time of year in our part of the country, our favorite weatherman broke in and he and the crazy-ass storm chasers started in talking on top of each other about power flashes and debris. So we missed the last 15 minutes of a show I think we are really going to like. Damn weather.Did you watch? There's a recap up at cbs.com, but no real details about the last bit. Can you fill me in? We'll watch it online later, but I really want to know now....
Thursday, June 5, 2008
For Slim- A Lesson in Consumerism
Slim, here's the link I was talking about at lunch- when we were discussing the dirtiness and lack of metal forks at Mazzio's at the absurdness that Carl's Jr. can claim to be out of ketchup (and fries!) with both Albertson's and SuperTarget within walking distance.....
The $39 Experiment
The $39 Experiment
Self Tanner Update
Did you get around to trying Loreal's Sublime Glow in medium as I recommended?So far, it's endorsed by me, my neighbor Crystal, Beauty Addict (she's got a fabulous post on self-tanner smell), and Laura!
Laura writes: ......but I just finished up my Jergens and bought some Loreal Sublime Glow (Medium) and OMG - It's so much better than the Jergens! At Target is was actually a bit cheaper too ($6.49 vs $6.99) I really like that it's got little sparkly things in it that reflect the light. Hey, any help we can get, right? Anyway, I'm definitely a convert! If they only had it for the face - I'd be happy! It smells so much better than the Jergens I'm using on my face (which smells like peepee). Thanks Sasha!
So who else has tried it and what did you think?
Instituting Anti-Biting Program
You may remember in April that I posted about the fabulous anti-biting workshop I attended at our local health department. I finally found the Nuk Massage Brushes online and am placing an order today for enough for the entire 1 1/2 year old class and the 2 year old class (WC's class). These are the two classes where biting is the biggest problem.
Cross your fingers that this helps!
Wednesday, June 4, 2008
Summer TV!
OK, before you freak out and leave me a comment that my excessive TV-watching is probably contributing to the downfall of my youngest child's behavior, let me assure you I Tivo all my programs and either watch them after the kids have gone to bed, or while I am running on the treadmill, which lately hasn't been much.
So basically my TV-watching time is pretty limited. I am freaking out a little because I just got my new TV Guide (love it!) and there is a whole list of things I am wanting to watch this summer.
So basically my TV-watching time is pretty limited. I am freaking out a little because I just got my new TV Guide (love it!) and there is a whole list of things I am wanting to watch this summer.
- Nashville Star (Tivo alert! Changed from USA Network to NBC- you'll have to change your Season Pass) (June 9th)
- Tori & Dean: Home Sweet Home (Tivo alert! Name changed) (Oxygen June 17)
- My Boys (Tivo alert! Needs to be re-added as a season pass- info from last summer was lost) (TBS June 12)
- Swingtown (CBS Thursdays- this week!)
- Big Brother (Tivo Alert! Will probably need to be added since the put the season number after it) (CBS July 13)
- Project Runway (Bravo July)
- The Next Food Network Star (Food Network- started last Sunday)
I still haven't watched the Lohan show or Denise Richards either, and I don't think I will. Just no time. My list above looks much better.
EDITED TO ADD: Damn, Slim, you are right. I left off So You Think You Can Dance! I even attempted to do a whole post dedicated to Claire Callaway and her new (bad) hair, but I couldn't find a pic the other day. Love that show. Love the choreographers most of all.
Tuesday, June 3, 2008
Note from School 6/3
"WC was sent to the office today for taking off her shoes 3 times and for sassing her teachers."
Wah.
Wah.
New Motto Found at the Health Department
"Power belongs to those who use it, and if parents don't, their kids will."
-Gregory Bodenhamer, Former Probation Officer, Author
Well, well, well. We are making progress.
Today I met with the Child Development Specialist (CDS) and got the results from The Wild Child's developmental assessment from last week. As I suspected, she scored age-appropriate in all areas, and her speech actually measured at beyond a 3 year old level, which is fab since she is only 28 months old.
We worked on a sensory questionnaire today and I'll go back next week for the results of that. I also scheduled a hearing screening to rule out a hearing problem.
Some background for those of you just joining us: The Wild Child is hell on wheels. She's actually a fabulous child with such a great spirit and personality- but she chooses some inappropriate behaviors when she doesn't get her way that include (but aren't limited to) biting, hitting, spitting, ignoring, etc. We also have trouble getting her to follow directions when she doesn't want to do what we are asking. Most scary to me is that she has been running from us in public places and won't respond to us when we tell her to "Stop!".
The Child Development Specialist and I have decided that WC is a "spirited child". We also went over a cool analogy involving The Hundred Acre Woods that put it all in perspective for me (WC is a Tigger, The Politician and I are Piglets, and Mr. Sasha is a Pooh- more on that later when I get a copy of it next week). Basically, parenting WC is just different than parenting P, and the Sashas just need to figure out what to do. As one friend said last week, "You don't want to look up in 2 years and realize that WC is running the house!".
The most fabulous part of all this is that the CDS is going to meet with us weekly until we get a "discipline plan" in place once we figure out what will be most effective. She even offered to visit WC's early childhood development center to observe her in class and discuss with her teachers what discipline plan we decide on.
I feel so good about all this and really feel like I am taking the steps I need to take to keep myself off Super Nanny on national TV.
-Gregory Bodenhamer, Former Probation Officer, Author
Well, well, well. We are making progress.
Today I met with the Child Development Specialist (CDS) and got the results from The Wild Child's developmental assessment from last week. As I suspected, she scored age-appropriate in all areas, and her speech actually measured at beyond a 3 year old level, which is fab since she is only 28 months old.
We worked on a sensory questionnaire today and I'll go back next week for the results of that. I also scheduled a hearing screening to rule out a hearing problem.
Some background for those of you just joining us: The Wild Child is hell on wheels. She's actually a fabulous child with such a great spirit and personality- but she chooses some inappropriate behaviors when she doesn't get her way that include (but aren't limited to) biting, hitting, spitting, ignoring, etc. We also have trouble getting her to follow directions when she doesn't want to do what we are asking. Most scary to me is that she has been running from us in public places and won't respond to us when we tell her to "Stop!".
The Child Development Specialist and I have decided that WC is a "spirited child". We also went over a cool analogy involving The Hundred Acre Woods that put it all in perspective for me (WC is a Tigger, The Politician and I are Piglets, and Mr. Sasha is a Pooh- more on that later when I get a copy of it next week). Basically, parenting WC is just different than parenting P, and the Sashas just need to figure out what to do. As one friend said last week, "You don't want to look up in 2 years and realize that WC is running the house!".
The most fabulous part of all this is that the CDS is going to meet with us weekly until we get a "discipline plan" in place once we figure out what will be most effective. She even offered to visit WC's early childhood development center to observe her in class and discuss with her teachers what discipline plan we decide on.
I feel so good about all this and really feel like I am taking the steps I need to take to keep myself off Super Nanny on national TV.
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